Thanks for coming to visit the new home of my blog. I’ve decided to move over to WordPress due to the better layout and presentation of their blogs. Below you’ll find my favorite post from my old blog (which is still active if you are looking for some old post www.dustinsroadtonowhere.blogspot.com as I only copied over about 1/3rd of my previous post.) I thought I would start off by Re-Posting the two post that really embody the path I’m on, or in search of depending on the day, as they lay the framework for the vision I hope to convey throughout this blog.
So enjoy, come back often as I will try and continue to keep things fresh with a few post a monthly.
DUSTIN’S ROAD TO NOWHERE
So I’ve been looking back at my life and looking forward to where I want to go and find things are often a blur. So I thought why not do as every other person who seems to have access to the Internet and start a blog so I can one day look back at everything that happened, and if want to, share with others the fun things I’ve done, allow those who are far away to see what’s happened and if I feel insightful one day maybe even share some thoughts with you.
Why Dustin’s Road to Nowhere – Many of you will see this title and immediatly expect this to be sad, dark, or negative but I don’t see the analogy Road to Nowhere as negative, actually it’s quite the opposite. I believe the Road to Nowhere is where I want to be. It’s that place or state of mind you reach when you are exactly where you want to be and you are traveling forward in time but you aren’t trying to go anywhere. OK for those you that are going what hell is he talking about here’s an example
It’s late January or early February, it’s been a stressful week (I can’t remember why?) and I’m out Nordic skiing at Duntroon Highlands, it’s about -5, fresh fluffy snowflakes are falling, I haven’t seen anyone in over a half hour. I’m seemingly alone in the wilderness, I’ve skied about 7 or 8 Km’s nonstop, I have a smile, the stress from the week is a distant memory, my thoughts are void (Similar to the state of mediation that the Buddhist monks try and achieve through mediation and stay in that state for hours, days, months or longer.). All that can be heard are my deep breaths border lining on breathless and the gliding sound of my skis, I still have another 7 or 8 Km’s till I get back to the chalet But I’m not trying to get anywhere, I’m exactly where I want to be and would carry on like this forever. I may be moving forward, covering distance, you could say I’m travelling, but I’ve
already reached my destination, my goal. At this point I’m travelling A Road to Nowhere.
These moments can be found anywhere and are found in different places and at different times for different people, it can be when you are surrounded with laughter and the people you love, holding that special someone in the middle of the night, beeing isolated in the wilderness away from reality, tying together curves on a motorcycle down a deserted twisty highway, or scaring the shit out of yourself riding off an unexpected rock drop on a gnarly mountain bike trail. However, I think there’s a lucky a few that follow their dreams, whatever they maybe and reach a point where every moment of their life they are travelling that Road to Nowhere.
THE ART OF LIVING
“A master in the art of living draws no sharp distinction between his work and his play; his labour and his leisure; his mind and his body; his education and his recreation. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence through whatever he is doing, and leaves others to determine whether he is working or playing. To himself he always appears to be doing both.” – Francois Auguste Rene Chateaubriand
I thought I’d share this quote because I feel it really resonates my view on how we should be evaluating our careers and lives. Ask yourself does your current job or direction in life reflect who you really are? Does it reflect what drives you and what you enjoy? Don’t get me wrong and read this thinking that I’m suggesting you all go out, quit your jobs, and just play. You need to find a balance of rewards between self-fulfilling and financial. Personally I think I’ve put myself on the right path with my career move to Yamaha Canada, (now as a Cafe Owner) providing me the opportunity spending everyday around an industry I’m passionate about. Hopefully while working my way through the ranks I also manage to find a position that reflects my personality quite well. However, for the guy who plays Sudoku on his lunch break a career as a financial analysist may the right choice, if they couldn’t pull you away from the building blocks as a kid maybe a career in structural engineering would be a fit, or if you are as compassionate with animals as you are with people, you should end up being a Vet, or maybe an animal trainer. I could go on and on with examples.
The other questions I would ask is why do so many people accept a career that doesn’t reflect who they are and the really don’t enjoy? Social status, expectations put on you by others, to make the big money? Why would I want an exuberant salary? To afford trips, cars, toys, a big house and hobbies, makes sense. However, would someone like myself be better off to give up a big house and new car if you could do what you wanted every day? Maybe being mountain guide in the winter, and a bike/kayak guide in the summer? I wouldn’t need as many holidays if I lived the life I wanted day to day and then would the material things really make me any happier? There’s definitely a line somewhere between the two extremes that is the perfect fit.
Ultimately as the quote above mentions, the focus is to blur the lines between work and play. How much the line is blurred, and what side you stand on will be different for everyone you.